For short periods of time throughout my life as a Mistress I have requested payment in exchange for My time and talents Dominating submissives. Domination and FemDom in particular are valuable skills, much lusted after and rarely found to be genuine and worthy.
However I have found that instead of hoping to combine My desire to pay the bills with My natural love of Domination and male submission, a better way for Me is to continue My freelance writing work from home and listen to My heart’s demands. That I am a Lifestyle Mistress.
This is, in part, due to the fact that submissives who pay per hour, per session or per activity seem to mistakenly think they hold some power over the Mistress involved. That they have some right to demand certain activities, certain attitudes or the ways in which the Mistress will act. Attitudes of the submissives themselves has always ranged from reluctant to downright obnoxious, through pro-Domination. I have had abuse and harassment hurled at Me and those who can see the clear desire for Me to enjoy My natural Dominant role as well as paying bills and being spoiled with gifts are few and far between.
So, no. You can’t pay for My Domination. I Dominate only those I choose, those I deem worthy enough to interact with, whether online or honoured enough to be in My presence. I always return to My heart’s true desire, and I am proud to be one of the world’s rarely found and under-valued, genuine Lifestyle Mistresses.
– Mistress Cara Sutra